Friday, February 24, 2012

Blame Game

I grow so tired of people passing blame.
Has society grown so narcissistic that we have lost the ability to look at ourselves with the slightest bit of honesty?
Its time to wake up, grow up, and start accepting responsibility for our actions.
Get over our "feelings" and get down to the brass tax of things called the hard cold truth.
As sound minded complete independent adults, we play a part in our situations.
I am not a recovering iv meth user because my parents were emotionally unavailable and my siblings were self indulgent better then me roll models in my life. I was a meth addict because I chose to waller in my own self pity bile and stuck a needle in my arm. You know because my ex husband beat me and then took custody of my only daughter and my husband at that time was a pill head that made mine and our sons life hell. That's not their fault it was mine because I made a choice to stay when I should have packed up and left them.
We are all like this to a degree until we come to terms with the man in the mirror, drop to our knees and cry out to God to clean us up and give us the strength to face the ugliness of our human nature. We are like spoiled little children in the super market pitching a all out tantrum because we don't get our way.
I AM OVER IT.....
I am sick and tired of having put my time in faced my demons, humbled myself before courts man and God admitting my wrongs while being kicked and never one time whining because I am a victim of someone else. No one can make me a victim anymore... I have grasped the truth and held to that truth, I am the only one that can make me a victim. So I am not going to pass the blame and sherk my responsability, I am going to stand and say I choose to SURVIVE come what may.

1 comment:

  1. Those who blame are those who refuse to accept accountability for their own actions. Dont waste time on people like this. THey want to self destruct and dont have the courage to process this on their own. Instead they destroy the relationships that have value.

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